What is ” My Life, My Death, My Wishes”

I’m Berni B, a trained Funeral Celebrant and End-of -Life Doula, and I’m here to encourage you to talk about death and consider legacy planning.

As I age and come towards the end of my life, I have no way of knowing what’s around the corner, but I do know one thing, I want people to remember the vibrant and full life I lived before I became frail.  I want people to be aware of the life that I lived and the things that matter to me.  Even when I can no longer communicate them.

That’s why I’ve developed “My Life, My Death, My Wishes”; to ensure the lasting memories of me are not my last few days or weeks but the decades that led up to them.

It is so important that others know both want we want and what we DON’T want

Leaving lasting legacies.

My Life, My Death, My Wishes is a provides templates, workshops, guides and useful signposts to ensure your life and your passions are documented to ensure that when you are dying and after your death, those who are caring for you can do so in a way that is aligned to your preferences, personality and wishes.  Legacy planning is the greatest gift you can leave.  Ensuring those grieving know for sure they are acting in your best interest and taking the stress and worry out of managing your estate.  Legacy planning you life is remembered for the stories and moments that mattered to you.

Do you feel confident that, if you suddenly became life threateningly ill your closest family and friends would know your wishes and preferences about your care?”

Invest in your own Legacy Planning

Downloadable Templates and Guides 

Some of the content of the comprehensive packages are available as stand alone guides and templates
to see what’s available and purchase

death certificationA Comprehensive Guide to the What’s, Why’s and How’s of LASTING POWERS OF ATTORNEY  ONLY £24!

My Life and What’s Important to Me : Writing a QUALITY OF LIFE STATEMENT ONLY £18

Physical Products

A beautifully crafted, “My Life, My Death, My Wishes” Box is in its pre-production stages.  It will contain written instructions, templates and storage for all your life, death and after death documentation. Available to purchase in the not too distant future.  To Pre-order, click here

Comprehensive One-2-one packages to guide you through every step of the way, from practical planning to care and legacy options and facilitating family discussions

Initial 20 minute, no obligation, chat via telephone or zoom FREE text 07526 928232 or email info@bernib.co.uk

Learn more about ONE-TO-ONE PACKAGES TO PUT IN PLACE ALL YOUR PRACTICAL AND LEGACY PLANS

One to One Practical Planning Support

One to One Care and Legacy Planning Support

One to one practical planning PLUS Care and Legacy Planning – save ££££££!

It is only fair that we help make the end of our life as easy as possible for those we love and leave behind.
I’m here to give you the time, space, information and tools to PRE-PLAN for the inevitable: DEATH.
Through group talks, coffee mornings, one-to-one conversations and family meetings, I want to help normalise the conversations and let you know your options. Not only that, but, as death is a subject we all try so hard to avoid, very few of us are aware of all the options available to us.
Did you know, for example, that there is no legal requirement to use a Funeral Director? In fact there are only two legal requirements in the UK for funerals. The time in which a death must be certified and registered. And how the body must be disposed of.**
“Bernie is an amazing person, she is kind, caring, informative, compassionate and inspirational. I would thoroughly recommend her, she is a pink haired diamond, much love and huge thanks” – Oct 2021